We heard today that our paperwork is impeccable and perfect, which was nice to hear, after all the work we had done to prepare it. What's not perfect is our age. We've known that Haitian law states that couples must be 35 to adopt, but had been told months ago that there were exceptions to that rule, and that we met those exceptions. But...in January a law is going to be passed changing the age to 29, an age that Sean reached just weeks ago. (Only one of us needs to be 29). One person at the agency where the paperwork has been has decided that he wants to wait until the law is passed next month before signing our paperwork. The rest of his team have signed off and it's all in his hands. The lawyer says he's doing us a favor and that this will make things go more smoothly in the next two step (yes, there are still two more steps).
We wish all of you a Merry Christmas and hope to see all of you in the new year!
Monday, December 17, 2007
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Happy Thanksgiving!
This Thanksgiving we had so much to be thankful for. My brother, his wife, and their amazing baby boy came to spend Thanksgiving with us. We had a wonderful time and were grateful for the days to relax together and to play with Baby Owen. We're also so thankful for our supportive friends and family, and for having great jobs that we love going to.
Obviously we were hoping to be thankful for the arrival of a certain beautiful girl, but for that we'll have to continue to wait. On last check in the IBESR has still not signed our paperwork. We know that it will take at least six weeks after it has been signed, which pushes our travel date into January at the earliest. It's been difficult to realize that we'll be celebrating Christmas without her and the waiting gets harder each day. We were happy tonight, however, when we talked to our friend who is also in the Haitian adoption process, who said that we somehow got through the US process much more quickly and easily than he ever has. We're not sure which factor made this happen, but are grateful nonetheless.
We hope you all had a great Thanksgiving as well. Know that we are thankful for each of you, for your support, and for your prayers.
Obviously we were hoping to be thankful for the arrival of a certain beautiful girl, but for that we'll have to continue to wait. On last check in the IBESR has still not signed our paperwork. We know that it will take at least six weeks after it has been signed, which pushes our travel date into January at the earliest. It's been difficult to realize that we'll be celebrating Christmas without her and the waiting gets harder each day. We were happy tonight, however, when we talked to our friend who is also in the Haitian adoption process, who said that we somehow got through the US process much more quickly and easily than he ever has. We're not sure which factor made this happen, but are grateful nonetheless.
We hope you all had a great Thanksgiving as well. Know that we are thankful for each of you, for your support, and for your prayers.
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Good News!
We got notice today that US Immigration has approved us and has sent our approval to the Consulate in Haiti! I know there was a blog posting months ago saying the same thing, but they had to approve two parts, and this was the second one. This is a huge relief, after the letter we got last week asking for something we wouldn't be able to get from Haiti for weeks, not to mention translation, etc. Apparently they decided we were fine without that. They are also asking for background checks on someone we've never heard of, so we're not quite sure what that's all about, but we're so grateful and relieved to have some good news.
We're still waiting anxiously for the IBESR to sign, as that's all that's holding things up now.
They say that God won't give you more than you can handle, and I think I was about to give up on the whole thing this afternoon...and then I got the email with the approval notice. This has been a long and difficult journey for us both and we know we're not at the end yet, but it's nice to think that we may be getting to the end-ish. I know that it's been difficult for all of you to watch us go through this and not know what to say or do. Know that we appreciate so much the regularity with which so many of you check the blog, these days we appreciate most the LACK of questions we've been getting, and most of all we appreciate the prayers. As a friend put it the other night, "Everytime I log on to the blog-and I do everyday-it's a reminder to send up a prayer." We've got a site tracker on the blog and are able to see the number of people who look at the blog and also what states and countries are represented. It's so powerful for us to know that people all around the country, and a few outside the US, are checking in. Thanks.
We're still waiting anxiously for the IBESR to sign, as that's all that's holding things up now.
They say that God won't give you more than you can handle, and I think I was about to give up on the whole thing this afternoon...and then I got the email with the approval notice. This has been a long and difficult journey for us both and we know we're not at the end yet, but it's nice to think that we may be getting to the end-ish. I know that it's been difficult for all of you to watch us go through this and not know what to say or do. Know that we appreciate so much the regularity with which so many of you check the blog, these days we appreciate most the LACK of questions we've been getting, and most of all we appreciate the prayers. As a friend put it the other night, "Everytime I log on to the blog-and I do everyday-it's a reminder to send up a prayer." We've got a site tracker on the blog and are able to see the number of people who look at the blog and also what states and countries are represented. It's so powerful for us to know that people all around the country, and a few outside the US, are checking in. Thanks.
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Not much to report
On the U.S. side, we mailed a letter to Immigration on Friday trying to clear up questions about the things they've asked for. One of the things they want we can't get from Haiti for a few weeks, so we're hoping that will be soon enough.
On the Haitian side, our lawyer went to the IBESR (agency where the papers have been since July) a few days ago to see if they'd signed it now that the they have our psych eval. They have not. Marialyn instructed the lawyer to let us know the minute they sign.
Sean celebrated his 29th birthday yesterday! I surprised him with our first subscription to cable tv, including the Big Ten Network so that he can watch every single Indiana University basketball game this season.
That's all for now. Keep the prayers coming, please!
On the Haitian side, our lawyer went to the IBESR (agency where the papers have been since July) a few days ago to see if they'd signed it now that the they have our psych eval. They have not. Marialyn instructed the lawyer to let us know the minute they sign.
Sean celebrated his 29th birthday yesterday! I surprised him with our first subscription to cable tv, including the Big Ten Network so that he can watch every single Indiana University basketball game this season.
That's all for now. Keep the prayers coming, please!
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Hurricane Noel
Thanks to all of you who have emailed about the recent hurricane, Noel. Although it caused much devastation and dozens of deaths in Haiti, all of the friends we met on our trip are safe. It's devastating to read the stories about parents having to choose one child over another as the water swept them away. The deforestation of the majority of the country played a role in the damage of the heavy rains. We are relieved that it has moved away from the area.
The lawyer received our paperwork (thanks again DHL!) on Friday and said she would bring it to the 2nd agency (the one that the paperwork has been in since July) on Monday. We're hoping that she did and that they immediately signed it so that she could take it to the next agency right away. We're also realistic, and know that "immediately" and "right away" rarely happen.
In the meantime we've been trying to understand a request we got from US Immigration asking for a document we already submitted as well as another form of documentation that we don't even understand. I'm starting to feel like it will be a miracle if this all goes through. But...crazier things have happened, so start praying everyone.
On a happier note, I just got back from a four day trip to my home town in Indiana. A group from my church here went to a conference that my dad played a major role in, so it was wonderful to see many family members (including my amazing 7 month old nephew!!!) as well as attend the conference.
We should be getting some news of something soon, so keep watching and please say (at least) a few prayers for the "paperwork people" as I call them, the baby girl, and the two of us. Thanks.
The lawyer received our paperwork (thanks again DHL!) on Friday and said she would bring it to the 2nd agency (the one that the paperwork has been in since July) on Monday. We're hoping that she did and that they immediately signed it so that she could take it to the next agency right away. We're also realistic, and know that "immediately" and "right away" rarely happen.
In the meantime we've been trying to understand a request we got from US Immigration asking for a document we already submitted as well as another form of documentation that we don't even understand. I'm starting to feel like it will be a miracle if this all goes through. But...crazier things have happened, so start praying everyone.
On a happier note, I just got back from a four day trip to my home town in Indiana. A group from my church here went to a conference that my dad played a major role in, so it was wonderful to see many family members (including my amazing 7 month old nephew!!!) as well as attend the conference.
We should be getting some news of something soon, so keep watching and please say (at least) a few prayers for the "paperwork people" as I call them, the baby girl, and the two of us. Thanks.
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
We love the Consulate
I was joking in my last post when I said that we expected the Haitian Consulate in Chicago to stamp our paperwork before his morning coffee and send it right back out to us. Apparently, it wasn't a joke! It arrived there yesterday at 845 am and it was stamped and on our doorstep when I got home from work this afternoon. I'm always shocked and amazed when something goes quickly and smoothly.
I rushed the paperwork to the DHL office at the airport and had them send it off to Haiti ASAP. Last time it got there in less than 24 hours, although they call it 2 day shipping. Hopefully Noel (the storm hitting that area) won't slow down the flights carrying our papers or more importantly cause damage or destruction to any of the countries in its path.
Now it's back to the waiting game. Of course, I'm frantically calculating in my mind...if it gets to the lawyer on Thursday and she gets the agency to sign it by Friday...Friday is November 2...6 weeks from November 2 is December 14. I'm simulaneously preparing myself for the worst and reminding myself that it's rare for things to go quickly in Haiti. But it sure is fun to think about picking her up in time for Christmas!
We'll keep you posted as we track the package and (hopefully) hear updates from the lawyer!
I rushed the paperwork to the DHL office at the airport and had them send it off to Haiti ASAP. Last time it got there in less than 24 hours, although they call it 2 day shipping. Hopefully Noel (the storm hitting that area) won't slow down the flights carrying our papers or more importantly cause damage or destruction to any of the countries in its path.
Now it's back to the waiting game. Of course, I'm frantically calculating in my mind...if it gets to the lawyer on Thursday and she gets the agency to sign it by Friday...Friday is November 2...6 weeks from November 2 is December 14. I'm simulaneously preparing myself for the worst and reminding myself that it's rare for things to go quickly in Haiti. But it sure is fun to think about picking her up in time for Christmas!
We'll keep you posted as we track the package and (hopefully) hear updates from the lawyer!
Sunday, October 28, 2007
Updates
Our psychological evaluation is on its way to the Haitian Consulate in Chicago right now in both its English and French versions. It should be waiting there when they open tomorrow morning and our hope is that they will put upon it their seal of approval and ship it back to us in the overnight envelope before they have their morning coffee. As soon as we receive it we'll DHL it to Haiti. We found earlier in the process that that can get papers in the hands of the lawyer in less than 24 hours!
We heard on Friday that Bedeline continues to be healthy and that she's regaining the weight that she had lost during her illness. We have no idea how much she may weigh these days but are thinking she may be in 2T clothing by the time she arrives.
Thanks for reading!
We heard on Friday that Bedeline continues to be healthy and that she's regaining the weight that she had lost during her illness. We have no idea how much she may weigh these days but are thinking she may be in 2T clothing by the time she arrives.
Thanks for reading!
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