The Baby Breininger Blog

Welcome friends! In 2007 we started this blog to share the status of our adoption process. After an excrutiatingly long wait, we travelled to Haiti in June 2009 and brought our girl home on July 15. Now this blog is a place for us to share pictures and videos, give updates and brag about how wonderful she is. Enjoy!

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Opera: Take Two

You may remember our first introduction of Opera to Maya last summer with this video post, in which she went through the many emotions often associated with the medium:

http://babybreiningerblog.blogspot.com/2009/09/another-musical-experience-with-maya.html

Since then we received an "Opera for Kids" cd from Grandma with all the big hits sung in English and Maya has changed her tune.

Friday, March 19, 2010

Maya Updates

Sorry it's been so long since our last post! In the world of Facebook and Flipvideos, I've been finding myself updating people on our girl using those, which are so fast and easy. But today I found myself with a rare few moments and thought I'd actually write something about the nugget who lives with us.

Maya continues to grow at an alarming rate, no longer holding on to the belly or chubbiness of her 'youth', she seems to get taller by the day and is often mistaken for a five-year-old.

Her English vocabulary is phenomenal, blowing us away with sentences such as, "The sleeves of my long-sleeved shirt are inside out right now." "Would you like some help?" "Absolutely I would!"

We're taking West African dance classes, which I thought she would love, as dancing is her favorite pasttime, but she hasn't quite gotten into it yet. I, on the other hand, am loving it, which is as much a shock for me as I'm sure it is for you! (if you're a reader who has met me, you know that coordination is NOT my strong suit)

She's also tried out roller skating and bowling recently, both which she loved and wants to do more of asap.

Musically she blows us away daily as she can match pitch with the piano, makes up her own songs and can play tunes like "Twinkle" on the piano.

Really, there's not much she's not good at....except sleeping.

Since day one sleeping has been an issue. Something she despises more than anything. We've tried every arrangement of every bed in every room, tried bedtime yoga, peppermint tea, infant massage, low lighting, avoiding sugar, a wave sound machine, and have even consulted a sleep expert. I've determined we're dealing with the perfect storm: she has huge adnoids which cause her to wake up frequently, she's afraid of the dark, and she's deathly afraid of us leaving her. Not a good combination for a restful night. Her adnoids will be removed, along with a cyst on her neck on April 9 and we hear from everyone that this should make a huge difference for the good. We hope and pray that they're right!

Overall she is a joy and still, after nine months together, we pinch ourselves that she is actually HERE with us! We are so grateful for the fun that she brings to our lives.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Haiti Earthquake update

Dear Friends,

This is the first post I have ever written on our blog about our wonderful girl Maya. Most of you who know me, know that for me to put something out in the blogosphere takes a lot. I feel compelled and obligated to share with you updates from my organization, Friends of the Orphans and the organization we support in Haiti, Nuestros Pequeños Hermanos/Nos Petit Freres et Soeurs (NPH/NPFS, Spanish and French for “Our Little Brothers and Sisters”). I have 2 requests for those of you that read this: continue your prayers for all those suffering in Haiti, including our friends we still wait to hear from and for those involved with the relief efforts. My other request is that you financially support and/or share information about organizations you know to be providing swift and effective aid to the country.

I know as I post this it will most likely be out of date, so please check our website for the most up to date information: http://www.friendsoftheorphans.org/s/769/start.aspx

Update from our operations (NPH/NPFS) on the ground
We have confirmed that we have lost at least 11 workers/family members/volunteers, including 2 US citizens, international volunteer Molly Hightower and Ryan Kloos, the brother of another international volunteer Erin Kloos. Both were killed when our administrative and volunteer office (Father Wasson Center) collapsed.

Friends of the Orphans and NPH are currently at the forefront of relief efforts. Our hospital, St. Damien had to be evacuated and the courtyard of the hospital has now become a triage center with an estimated 700 people, including 200 children needing medical attention and at least 25 in need of amputations. Fr. Rick Frechette, medical director of our hospital, has been coordinating efforts at the hospital while also providing pastoral care and hope for for the people. Please read his first communication to us after arriving in Haiti: http://www.friendsoftheorphans.org/s/769/inner.aspx?sid=769&gid=1&pgid=896

Fr. Rick and St. Damien's Hosptial has been featured on most major networks, 2 interviews can be found here: http://abcnews.go.com/Video/playerIndex?id=9570839
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/34863508#34868097

NPH has sent at least $700,000 to Fr. Rick and much more will be needed to assist in these efforts.

Again, please go to http://www.friendsoftheorphans.org/s/769/start.aspx for the most up to date information.

We continue to be grateful for your concern and prayers for our family and for your awareness and advocacy on behalf of the people of Haiti.

Sean

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Earthquake

Thanks to all of you who have been contacting us with questions, concerns and prayers. We don't know much more than the news is telling us. But in answer to the most frequently asked question, Maya's birth mother does not live in or near Port-au-Prince and so we are assuming and praying that she is safe.

Updates from Sean's organization, which has an orphan home, a hospital and an administrative office in Haiti are:

•St. Damien hospital in Tabarre, 15 miles northeast of the epicenter, is not the hospital that has reportedly collapsed but the perimeter walls of the hospital, neighboring Kay Germaine complex and St. Francisville center, have all collapsed. Also all of the walls in the hospital are cracked resulting in major structural damage and minor injuries.

•The Fr. Wasson Center, the former hospital facility, in Petionville has collapsed.

•Our family at St. Helene orphanage in Kenscoff, which is located 11 miles east of the epicenter, is reportedly safe.

•Several people are on their way to assess the situation at the various locations. Among them is Fr. Rick Frechette, Regional Director of NPH Caribbean, who was in the U.S. at the time of the earthquake.


Port-au-Prince is where we spent our four weeks this summer and we so I can picture clearly what buildings such as the Presidential Palace used to look like. The road that we spent most of our time on is one that is reported to have more collapsed buildings than not. One of the hotels that we stopped at to decide if we should stay there has collapsed.

Other than Sean's Haiti co-workers, one who was at the orphan home a safe distance away at the time of the quake, and one who was in the US, we don't know the status of our other friends there. Our closest friend there we just heard had been bedridden with a back injury and unable to walk a few days before the earthquake and living right in that area. As I write this, I just got an update that another friend has made contact and is alright. It seems to be that some houses are fine and others right next door collapsed, killing everyone inside.

I fear that the worst is not over and that as these people who are already starving and desperate move through these next days and weeks without food, water and shelter and trying to deal with the chaos and devastation that surrounds them that things will turn desperate and ugly. Please send prayers.

Many of you have asked how you can help. If you feel so inclined, follow this link:
http://www.friendsoftheorphans.org/s/769/inner.aspx?sid=769&gid=1&pgid=252&cid=1903&ecid=1903&crid=0&calpgid=61&calcid=719#latest

Meanwhile we are grateful that our girl is safe and sound here with us and will squeeze her extra tight today.

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Our other blog...

If you're looking for a winter (or any other season!) getaway check out our other blog, which features details and pictures of our rentable cottage on Lake Superior as well as a new video of Maya enjoying a weekend there.

Lakesuperiorgetaway.blogspot.com

Thursday, January 7, 2010

A big day for Maya

Yesterday Maya received in the mail her new birth certificate, this one stating that we are the parents and that her name is now officially Maya Bedeline Breininger. Holding this piece of paper felt very surreal and wonderful. Partly because to us we've been her parents and she's been "Maya" for almost seven months now. And partly because it made me realize that technically she's been Bedeline this whole time. In the same way, we fluctuate between feeling like she's been here forever and feeling disbelief that she's actually here.

The other big event in Maya's life yesterday was that when I picked her up from child care, the provider told me that she finally let her bossy friend "have it". Assuming this meant Maya verbally sticking up for herself against this older child who likes to teach her bad habits, my first reaction was, "yes!"...until I heard that there was blood involved. After a long fight over a ball Maya swung and knocked her friend in the nose, causing it to bleed. At this I was mortified. Apparently it didn't even bruise, but still! When we approached Maya about it later, she felt terrible and after telling the story turned and said, "I don't want you guys to look at me right now." A conversation about using our words followed.

I can't wait to see what happens on the day when her Social Security card arrives!

Friday, January 1, 2010

Ho Ho Ho!

There was no Santa sighting this Christmas, but Uncle Matthew made up for that!